--- title: Never gossip about others created: 2025-02-20T10:08:47 modified: 2025-12-23T17:29:52 --- > _“Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people.” — Eleanor Roosevelt_ > _“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.” — Dr. Wayne Dyer_ --- Don’t gossip. Don’t bad­mouth. Just don’t do it. --- The way you talk about others is the way [you talk to yourself.](be-careful-how-you-are-talking-to-yourself.md) --- When you talk bad about others, people wonder if you talk bad about them too. --- # Practice “Positive Gossip” Make a habit of praising people when they’re not around. This is one of the fastest ways to foster a positive work/social environment. --- [Judge others by intentions, judge ourselves by actions](judge-others-by-intentions-judge-ourselves-by-actions.md)